- Name: the tormented pleaser
- Location: metro manila, Philippines
im the tormented pleaser, born under the star of Taurus, year of the dog, eldest in the family, currently working my ass off for no reason, i am my own comforter, afraid of confrontations and leeches, loves to eat donuts(classic), and loves to drink flavored water. I am an optimistic person. i love my friends, i am thoughtful, i strongly believe, i dont fall in love easily...for now.
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likes: doughnuts and coffee |
guy and gay friends |
optimism |sensible talkers|music|
hates: prententions |
lame-stupid people|rejections| rants|leeches|
Tuesday, February 08, 2005
REally...how? This morning, my good friend Mike texted me with this line..." ...jun mahirap ba akong mahalin?" I wanted to laugh but i thought why am i so biased against peopple who acts weird when in love? I replied him with words of encouragement and i told him he's a good person. But back to me, why am i so against "people being corny when they're in love"?
I dont attach myself too much in a relationship, maybe that's the reason that the only longest relationship i had was a year long. I grew up believing that if you're meant to be together, then you are, if not, well, then i guess you just have to part ways. I dont cling into realtionship, i really dont. I even don't exert any effort to hold on. I believe that people come and go in our life, so whether we like it or not, we just have to let go of them. No matter how hard and frustrating it is.
It's funny that when i'm into a relationship, i always condition myself, from the start of it, that this person whom i'm with will not stick forever. He will have to move on, to leave. I dont see myself growing old with a person. In short, sticking with the same person for the whole lifetime, for me, is impossible, if not, hard and seldom happens! I guess i conditioned myself too much with the belief that "people come and go and we have to let go" that i over-emphasized it.
the tormented pleaser at Tuesday, February 08, 2005
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