- Name: the tormented pleaser
- Location: metro manila, Philippines
im the tormented pleaser, born under the star of Taurus, year of the dog, eldest in the family, currently working my ass off for no reason, i am my own comforter, afraid of confrontations and leeches, loves to eat donuts(classic), and loves to drink flavored water. I am an optimistic person. i love my friends, i am thoughtful, i strongly believe, i dont fall in love easily...for now.
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likes: doughnuts and coffee |
guy and gay friends |
optimism |sensible talkers|music|
hates: prententions |
lame-stupid people|rejections| rants|leeches|
Tuesday, September 27, 2005
Yesterday we were talking about settling in life, getting married, having boyfriends, casual sex, children... etc.
It came to a point where me and my friend had to some choices, which is better for us, the sex with a boyfriend, or a casual sex with a fling?
I had an experience with flings, and i had one with a boyfrien,a lthough i won't consider it as an all the way sex. More of a heavy-heavy make out. Going back to what im saying, i had chose the casual sex. Why? I want a sex without the responsibility. CAsual sex is more of a choice for me because you can do it without the thought of what ifs and what have.
After a casual sex, you move on with your life. I dont have this feeling of shame since after the deed, you proceed with your life. Its more like the feeling when you ahve sex with a stranger. You have this thought that everything is okey since you won't see each other again.
SAbi ko nga, kapag boyfriend, mas mahihiya ka pa since you have to act like a girlfriend to him, more of emotional connections, there's love, and therefore, you ahve to be very careful not to hurt each others' feelings. Be very cautious with what you do, what you say, and everything.
Unlike in casual sex, nothin. After it, you get the satisfaction you want and no qualms whatsoever! I am not the type who looks for emotional connections, as long as we understand each ohter, physically, and you do not bore me with your nonsense talks, im fine with it.
If youre the type who values emotions, who values the "love connection", then casual sex is definitely not for you!
the tormented pleaser at Tuesday, September 27, 2005
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