- Name: the tormented pleaser
- Location: metro manila, Philippines
im the tormented pleaser, born under the star of Taurus, year of the dog, eldest in the family, currently working my ass off for no reason, i am my own comforter, afraid of confrontations and leeches, loves to eat donuts(classic), and loves to drink flavored water. I am an optimistic person. i love my friends, i am thoughtful, i strongly believe, i dont fall in love easily...for now.
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likes: doughnuts and coffee |
guy and gay friends |
optimism |sensible talkers|music|
hates: prententions |
lame-stupid people|rejections| rants|leeches|
Thursday, October 20, 2005
how will you choose someone when you are torn between two people whom you love most?
How will you manage to put up a good decision without hurting someone?
Can you handle the situation?
Can you cope up with the pressure?
That sooner you will have to decide?
Can you manage to be happy with someone you chose knowing that someone was hurting?
Ugghhhh... questions!! Seem to be endless!!
These are the questions my friend was facing last night.
Today is the 5th year anniversary of his long time boyfriend, but sad, she also has another boyfriend.
They are together in less than a year.
She broke up actually with the long time boyfriend last night.
He loves both guys but sad!! She had to choose.
The other one is capable of offering her financial needs. Has a job, and seem to be responsible enough.
The other one, he's a bum. Has no permanent job, a drug addict before. Still living with parents.
Tough choice huh? Actually its easy to choose. Because of these factors.
But when love intereferes, goodbye sound decision!
But i say Love is not the only basis when it comes to deciding whether to stay in a relationship or not!
There's more to it. There's the trust, the respect, the responsibility!
Love? too much of it can kill you! Whatever that means!
Basta, love isnt the only basis! if you love two people, and the time comes for you to decide... Don't let Love lead the way. Try to see the other factors!
the tormented pleaser at Thursday, October 20, 2005
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